The following lists were taken from Dan Olweus' (1993) book, Bullying
at School, which is an informative and accessible book that we highly recommend
to teachers.
Possible signs of being a bully (Olweus, 1993)
· May tease (repeatedly) in nasty ways, taunt, intimidate, threaten,
ridicule, hit, and damage belongings of other students; this may be displayed
toward many children, but typically they select in particular weaker and relatively
defenseless students as their targets. Also, many bullies induce some of their
followers to do the "dirty work" while they themselves keep in the
background
· May be physically stronger than their classmates and their victims
in particular; may be the same age as or somewhat older than their victims;
are physically effective in play activities, sports, and fights (applies particularly
to boys)
· May have strong needs to dominate and subdue other students, to assert
themselves with power and threat, and to get their own way; they may brag about
their actual or imagined superiority.
· May be hot tempered, easily angered, impulsive, and have low frustration
tolerance; they have difficulty conforming to rules and tolerating adversities
and delays, and may try to gain advantage by cheating
· May be generally oppositional, defiant, and aggressive toward adults,
and may be frightening to adults (depending on the age and physical strength
of the young person); are generally good at "talking themselves out of"
difficult situations.
· May be seen as being tough, hardened, and may show little empathy with
students who are victimized
· Are often not anxious or insecure and they typically have a relatively
positive view of themselves (average or better than average self esteem)
· May engage in other antisocial behaviors at a relatively early age
· May be average, above or below average in popularity, but often have
support from at least a small number of peers; in junior high, bullies are likely
to be less popular than in primary school
· May show normal academic development in elementary school, but may
show academic decline in junior high as attitude becomes more and more negative
Possible primary signs of being a victim (Olweus, 1993)
· May be repeatedly teased in a nasty way, called names, ridiculed, intimidated,
subdued
· May be made fun of and laughed at in a derisive way
· May be picked on, pushed around, punched, and cannot defend selves
adequately
· May have quarrels or fights from which they try to withdraw (frequently
crying)
· May have their books, money, or other belongings taken, damaged, or
scattered around
· May have bruises, injuries, cuts, scratches, or torn clothing that
cannot be given a natural explanation
Possible secondary signs of being a victim (Olweus, 1993)
· May often be alone and excluded from the peer group during breaks,
do not seem to have a single good friend in the class
· May be chosen among the last in team games
· May try to stay close to the teacher or other adults during breaks
· May have difficulty speaking up in class and give an anxious and insecure
impression
· May appear distressed, unhappy, depressed, tearful
· May show sudden or gradual deterioration of school work
Possible signs of being a provocative victim (Olweus, 1993)
· May be hot-tempered and attempt to fight or answer back when attacked
or insulted, but usually not very effectively
· May be hyperactive, restless, unconcentrated, and generally offensive
and tension-creating; may be clumsy and immature with irritating habits
· May be actively disliked also by adults, including the teacher
· May themselves try to bully weaker students
For an example of Olweus' research, see Intervention Campaign Against Bully-Victim Problems.
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