For KidsWhat is a Bully?
Freddie and the Bully, Layla, age 6
A web page for kids who want to know a little more about
what bullying really is and how we can stop it.
A bully is a person who purposely tries to hurt others by:
· Making them feel uncomfortable.
· Hurting them by kicking, hitting, pushing, tripping, etc.
· Spreading nasty rumors.
The bully hurts the other person over and
The person being bullied feels that he or
she can do nothing to stop it:
· He or she might feel smaller or weaker than the
· He or she might feel outnumbered by the bully and the bully's friends.
· He or she might feel there is no help:
· No one to talk to.
· No one is standing up for him or her.
· He or she often feels very sad, but does not know how to change the
Bullies can be BOYS or GIRLS!!
Who do bullies pick on?
· Often, bullies are bigger kids, so they pick
· Kids they feel are smaller.
· Kids they think won't stand up to them.
· Kids that have few friends to stand up for them.
Why do bullies do what they do?
· Sometimes they think that they will win or get
what they want.
· Sometimes they want to impress or entertain their friends.
· Sometimes they enjoy feeling power over someone because sometimes
they are being bullied by someone else!
· Sometimes they do not even realize that they are hurting the other
What to do if someone is bullying you:
· Tell someone you trust about it. If it is easier
for you, write that person a note instead!! (People you might want to tell
are: parents, teachers, the principal, playground safeties, or older friends).
· If the person you told cannot help you or does not do anything, find
someone else! Never keep being bullied a secret!
· Try not to let the bully see you are upset. (Bullies are looking
for signs that you are upset and they may do it more).
· Avoid areas where the bully feels comfortable picking on you (for
example, places where teachers cannot see you - such as corners of the playground,
lonely corridors, and behind large furniture in the classroom.
· Try to surround yourself with friends and people who will stand up
What to do if you see someone who is being
· Get friends together and TALK to the bully. Let
the bullies in your school know that bullying is not accepted at your school.
· Don't cheer the bully on or stand around to watch. (The bully might
like the attention, and pick on the kid even more).
· If you see someone being bullied, find someone to help stop it. (Get
another friend, a teacher, a playground safety, a principal).
· Be nice to, include, and get to know the people who are being bullied:
You may find they are similar to you!!
· Try to make friends with the bully too- show them other ways to interact
with others. (They don't need to bully others to be accepted or cool).
What would you do?